Friday, December 09, 2005

I Have A Problem



I have a problem. It’s not a huge problem but it is a problem nonetheless.

I have a problem saying “NO” to people especially when my friends asked for help.

I have a problem saying “NO” to my brother when he asked me to baby-sit his 10-month old son while he goes out gallivanting with his 22-year-old wife. Well, if you saw how adorable my nephew is then I am sure you would have a problem saying “NO” too. But hey! I have a life too!


I have a problem saying “NO” to Ben & Jerry’s New York Super Fudge Chunk and Chocolate Fudge Brownie.

I have a problem saying “NO” to La Manila’s Dark Chocolate cake.

I have a problem saying “NO” to salespersons who often offer to sell me beauty products which according to her is guaranteed to make my skin soft as a baby’s bottom and reduce the size of the pores on my face.

I have a problem saying “NO” to my boss who would asked me to stay back at the office at 5.30 p.m. to help him do up a report which he was suppose to do for his boss but then later take credit for it. *^*(*^()&^^%$^%&*(*

So how do I overcome these problems? Do I feel the need to overcome these problems? God only knows. Right now I just wanna crawl in bed with a tub of Ben & Jerry’s New York Super Fudge Chunk and watch again all the episodes of “Sex and The City” Season 6 which made more sense than anything else in this whole wide world.

12 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'd say YES to that ... have a good weekend k ;-)

[V]landa said...

can you say no to sex?

Cosmic_GurL said...

Alex - U bet I said yes to Ben & Jerry's over the weekend! Heheh

Ylanda - Ermm...only when I have a headache my dear :p

Pink-Fins @ Blue-Fins said...

Put your foot down dear.. put your foot down! ;-)

Anonymous said...

Oh I agree with you Sher!!! I can't say no to those NY Super Fudge Chunk ice cream too!!! It's like SO chocolatey and the chocolate chunks and nuts... YUMM !!! It's my fave flavour after Fish Food. Sigh, where'd all the will power gone?? ;-)

Where to draw the line? I guess it depends on how you weigh the circumstances.... You don't want to be a complete pushover nor a completely selfish person...

2 things you shouldn't say no to. 1# Brad Pitt at your door holding a Ben & Jerry's NY Super Fudge Chunk ice cream tube and 2# Good ole mum's home cooked food! :-)

Cosmic_GurL said...

Pink-fins - But but but it's Ben & Jerry's!! How to put my foot down?

Princess - Oh yeah bebeh! I'd smother them chocolate ice cream all over brad's bodeh and lick em dry *slurp* LOL

trueblue said...

I have a problem saying 'no' to salespeople too!! I end up buying stuffs I don't even want in the first place. Urgghhh!!!!

Anonymous said...

Jijah..need my laundry to be collected this friday. Hmmm car need servicing and of course a can u like also paint my house . that would nice. gosh with all ure supportive frens leaving comments here i just couldnt help it. :P oh come on... why think on such... we are allowed to be an idiot once a while. of course u can choose my way of life which is be an idiot permenantly.

Cosmic_GurL said...

Trueblue - Yeah! Those salespeople should be shot kan? :)

Anonymous - Mr. H, I tot u have a maid to do all yr laundry. Tsk tsk...hehehe...yeah, I dont' mind being an idiot and say yes to Ben & Jerry's all the time. But you have my sympathy on being an idiot permanently! LOL.

Crash Test Mom said...

hi,
i think it's sweet of u to look after ur nephew while ur brother was out 'gallivanting' with his wife. :) I'm sure he appreciates ur help dear.

Cosmic_GurL said...

Shopper Mom - Yeah I dont mind babysitting my nephew at all. Hes such an angel :)

Anonymous said...

u should try appley ever after..or chunky monkey! yum