It's the classic dichotomy for the male psyche -- madonna vs. whore, Mary Ann vs. Ginger, housewife vs. ho, homebody vs. party girl. Which of the two is better?
The Pamela Andersons of the world will always instantly arouse men, but inside they know they could never tame -- much less trust -- a female like this. Instinctively they seek out more normal, down-to-earth women when they’re thinking of marriage and children.
Still, it's a problem that never goes away. Men want the best of both worlds: a princess on the street and a whore in the bedroom. Someone who is nice and treats them with respect, yet who acts like a wildcat in heat between the sheets. So just what are the advantages and disadvantages of dating bad girls and good girls? And is it possible to somehow combine the two types into one perfect woman?
First, let's look at some of the qualities embodied by the Bad Girl:
- the goods on the bad girl
She craves sex
She's eye candy
She ups your status
- the bads on the bad girl
She makes a bad partner
She is expensive
- the goods on the good girl
She's a clean slate
She's unlikely to cheat on you
She's often your best friend
She's easier on finances
- the bads on the good girl
She can be a sexual dud
She's fashionably comfortable
- the good to bad…
While such women may exist naturally out there, it's more likely that, to achieve this ideal, you'll have to train a good girl to be bad (because there's no way a bad girl is going to be good).
Well, this may not be an easy task, because many good girls have been brainwashed by mom or school into thinking that "bad" is inherently wrong. So the trick is to encourage her natural sexuality. Make her comfortable with sex. Romance her. Tell her how sexy she is when she seduces you or fulfills your fantasies -- or how satisfying it is to fulfill hers. Let her understand that great sex between the two of you can create an awesome bond, and that it is -- ultimately -- "good."
So while bad girls can be exciting, they're usually only worth it in the short term. If you can find a good girl and turn her into a sexual animal, you may just have found the perfect woman. And pretty soon, your good girl may be asking, "When?"
-Matthew Fitzgerald, the author of Sex-Ploytation-
p/s : Somehow I think Malaysian girls are mostly "good". Hehehe...and for the record, there's no harm in being a lil bit naughty :)