Monday, August 27, 2007

I Wanna Sex You Up

Sometimes I wonder if it’s possible to have too much of sex…or too little of it…

The above statement was made because a friend told me that she hadn’t had sex with her husband for about a month now or maybe longer than that. I don’t think the husband is having an affair because he’s not that type. Don’t ask me which types have affairs because I wouldn’t know but I think I know the husband pretty well. He really adores her. That’s why it’s hard to believe when I found out about the no sex thingy. She said that the husband comes back home pretty late everyday because the husband works as a cameraman with one of the esteemed television station and has to go outstation a lot too. So when he comes back he’s pretty tired to do anything else. She says that she would actually try to entice her husband by wearing sexy nighties but tak jalan jugak. The husband buat dunno jer. Is it possible? She's also frustrated because they're trying to have kids (they've been married for almost 5 years but no kids) but if the husband won't get jiggy with it then how to have kids?

Maybe I’m over-generalising it here but don’t men love sex? I mean I know a guy who pounced on his wife every chance he gets even though he’s tired.

Ehem..bak kata orang tua-tua..kucing mana tak makan ikan? Hehehe...

36 comments:

AphroditeKuzz said...

cameraman?
letih?
kucing mana tak makan ikan?
yela sangattttttttt...
hehehe...kita mesti pasang PI la ini macam weh..
*scary sangat*
... there must be a very good explanation y bill air tertunggak sampai 1 bulan.

thewailer said...

me mo dr.gray but sex spices up the affair, vice versa...

like all flames, they need to be reignited after a burnout hahaha :)

Cosmic_GurL said...

Aphroditekuzz - Bil air tertunggak? LOL! Whre do u get this expression la? Bukan Mat Rempit ke selalu guna this expression?

thewailer - 5 years sudah burnout ke? Aiyooo, scary thought!

Amy said...

Pergh gambar Angelina Jolie tuh..
Erk sebulan? Lama tuh...maybe should try talk to the hubby la, seksa woo kalau tanggung sorang2 takmo cakap.

EDDY PURNAMA SPARROW said...

some kucing also like ayam especially chicken crispers kat chillis...yummy...

u just know how 2 boost blog ratings kan...hahahhaha

east43street said...

Diorang kena jumpa Dr. Hamid, the water/water filter seller in my blog. He... he...

Seriously I think they need to be away from each other for sometimes. Then they will start missing each other.... and oua la..!!!

all jazzed up said...

work can really affect your sex life ok. but then she should try her act maybe at differnt times of the day instead of at night? morning maybe? oh god, i sound like a sex doctor.

diamond baby said...

maybe he is really really tired from work and all. but bottom line is she really should talk to her hubby abt it. lack of communication and understanding can lead to many problems.

Yours Truly ... XOXO said...

hehe one month is nothing...i know someone who totally ignored her husband for more than 6 months...err but dats totally a different story kan?

Some guys can live w/o sex i guess... rare but do exist... ehehhe but sian kat ur friend tu... she must feel pretty lonely... bak kate org melayu..'kekurangan kasih sayang?' heheeh ;P

shell said...

suruh dia try on another time.. maybe in the morning.. mungkin malam is just not his time kot..

Cosmic_GurL said...

Amy - Jolie jer yang boleh merangsangkan both men and women. Ahaks!

Eddy - Hep! Ni real prob la..bukan sajer 2 nak boost blog ratings. I kan dah mmg semulajadi fofular pun. Muahaha!

E43S - How to be away la...diaorang bukan gaduh pun..cuma lack of sex jer.

Dr. Hamid jual water filter?

AJU - Hahaha! Well, im sure she did try segala waktu pun husb mmg buat dunno jer..takkan nak spell it out clearly and say, "I WANT SEX, NOW!!"...kalau dah pakai seksi tu and gesel2 then paham2 jer la...Now I plak sound like a sex doctor!

DB - She did but the husb simply said that he's just tired and doesnt feel like doing it. How? Wht else can she say right? Takkan nak rape the husb plak :P

XOXO - The right word is "gersang" :P

shell - In the morning susah coz husb dia mmg jenis bgn lambat...susah kan?

UglyButAdorable said...

nie kalo term my fren ...air dah naik kapla!!!

i oso dunno ehhh....i'm sure sumthin' is wrong sumwhere, maybe she has to investigate further or just be open with the hubby laaa...

ti.e.na said...

yeah i think she shud try talking to the husband abt it.

if all else fails,i say rogol the hubby!muahahahh :p

Monster Mom said...

hahaha!!! LOL!

Hubby would say, dah merangkak biawak dah nih... so i guess to change the term to suit the ladies would be,

Bang! I dah merangkak cam singa dah nih!!! ARGGHHH!! Aummm!!!!

hik hik!

ardy said...

Yes, all men love sex. No exceptions. There's definitely something wrong with the husband. Maybe his gadget needs some oiling. Or plenty of oiling. There are different grades in the market. I suggest the fully synthetic ones, 15W20. Guaranteed to get his motor up and running again.

Of course, walking around naked in the house also could do the trick. Ditch the sexy lingerie, it leaves too much to the imagination. The husband is tired, he needs direct access ;)

katakbesar said...

for seconds there..
i thought it was your photo..
hahaha.. whooppiisshhh!.. down boy..

yup, men like sex
and so do women, right?

5 years, 1 month, lingerie, photographer
hmm.. very fishy indeed

my guess will be;
he tangos with someone else :!
(just a wild suspicion)
he don't like lingerie, prefers commando instead ;)
(i agreed with Ardy's.. hehe)
he's simply too tired
(perhaps, instead of entice, the wife should take charge)
whoppiisshhhh! ;)

- guile - said...

Hrm... let's try this. It's not sex. It's love making. Between you and your marriage partner, love making is a wonderful thing, but sex is different. Try to make love instead of having sex. Bring up the passion, lite up the fire and keep the fire burning and always have the love as foundation. With love, everything blooms. Of course, it takes two to tango. Try to have a weekend together (oopss.. no kiddies right?), ok.. why not stay over at some hotel. Have the hotel to decorate the room with rose petals and entice the moment from the beginning of the day until you arrive at the hotel. (I've done this ok?)

Again, let's try to use the term love making, not sex. It makes your lovelife with your husband/wives a whole lot better.

EDDY PURNAMA SPARROW said...

oh..lupa lak....maybe there is something wrong with his rocket...

kalau nak nombor tukang urut i got...kena service dr sebelum kahwin ...hahahhahahaha

Desparil said...

kalau stress... cannot perform... why don't she de-stress him first?

- guile - said...

CG dear,
I'm making a link to this post. Hope you dont mind. :)

D.N.A.S said...

I think the hubby is not in the mood or has no energy for love making. Quickie okay kot. Tell yr friend to take control and be on top, lah. Takyah entice the hubby, just do it.

Dade Ghost said...

Ello Kuching saya makan itu imported punya makanan je la.... ikan dia tak pandang!!! Wakakakaka.....

Ello CG I think the husband IS having an affair...... ermmm... yeah u can scold me....

Leen Ash Burn said...

*coughs*. I am inclined to agree with the above too. The most innocent ones they say...*grins*

Cosmic_GurL said...

UBA - I tak penah dgr that expression la..hehehe..air apa yang naik kapla? :P

tiena - LOL! ganas sungguh cik tiena ni..tapi i pun advice her the same thing. Kalau husb dia mengada tak nak sgt, then just rogol jer!

MM - LOL! Adoi sakit perut gelak. Merangkak cam singa huh? Hahahaha! Aum Aum!

Ardy - LOL! Direct access huh? Hmm..not a bad idea. I think i shall tell her to do that. But u must understand also la..some ppl are very conservative. Nak make love pun tutup lampu, ni tambah plak walk around naked in the house! :P

katakbesar - Ni lagi sorang! Hahaha! Asyik whoopish jer! U like to be dominated issit, KB? :P

I wish that was my pic man! but if he was tango-ing with someone else then id be pissed. The wife so baik kay...sigh..

guile - U did all that? Whoa! Kewl...

my dear, I use the term "having sex" very loosely here. Whtever u call it, it's the same thing. Before u make love, there must at least be some foreplay but if asyik foreplay memanjang and doesnt turn into sexual intercourse then tak guna jugak lah. I'm sure my friend did try to entice her husb to make love to her but he simply didnt want to dgn alasan "penat".

Eddy - Hmm...maybe..my friend takut kena buatan orang..u know la org melayu ni sometimes PHD very the high like that. But sapalah jahat sgt nak men"sabotage" other her husb's rocket? As far as i know they're both good people

Hahaha! Mana u dpt no. tukang urut? Everytime u balik Msia u gi service your rocket issit? :P

akula said...

I agree with tiena,rogol the hubby. If all else fail.....well, thats why they sell vibrators you girls.

Cosmic_GurL said...

Des - Segala benda dah my friend buat Des..tinggal oral sex jer blom (according to her la). nantilah I suruh dia try..hehehe

guile - Link away :)

dnas - tulah, maybe ill ask her to do that. Just rogol the hubby!

DG - Friskies issit? Or Iams? Hehehe. Semua kucing sama jer..even tho dah makan food dlm tin dia carik jugak tulang kat dapur!

Hep! I dont want to entertain that thought i.e. husb having an affair. I dont think my heart can take it. let alone hers! Sigh...

Leen - Haiyoo dont la Leen. Kesian la the wife if he is having an affair :(

Sarclover said...

my personal resolution is to have sex everyday after i got married.

except during those red flag days la...

yeah.. believe it darl.

Nour said...

hmm, I thot men when it comes to 'that' selalu tak penat punye....anyways, I feel she needs to communicate with him.

Wah, I termesmerize dgn gambar angelina joline tu..mengancam sungguh..no wonder Brad Pitt couldnt say no la huh!

Angel Eyes said...

Some men will also 'langgar' eventhough their wifey ada bendera berkibar! Macamana tu?

Sex is good, for both. Apart from going to gym.

Cosmic_GurL said...

akula - Vibrators got no sperm la bro! My friend ni nak anak. Hmm..maybe thats why the husb put off with sex kot. Coz it's not abt lovemaking but about making a baby. So it's not fun anymore. Eureka!! Ive got it!

sarclover - yeah yeah..untung la your husb...we'll see whether u still wanna sex after a tiring day at work...hehehe

nour - I pun sometimes ter"mesmerize" with her pics..that woman can turn me gay u know! Hahaha!

angeleyes - Tu dah over namanyer. It's very dangerous to have sex with your wife while shes having her period. Can lead to diseases tau!

agus said...

Ehem, kucing mana tak makan ikan?

Sedangkan ikan boleh makan ikan, kucing pun boleh makan steak apa... kena hantar skuad edisi siasat kalau cam nih. Sounds fishy, eh, ikan la pulak dah...

Just when you think you know someone, turns out, kucing makan ikan kat rumah orang lain... but that's just me being mean... mesti ada reason lain... kucing ni jenis memilih kot, sekali sekala nak jugak yang fresh... sorry, being mean again.

Sarclover said...

Cosmic,

BUT.. i WAAAAANT!

:P

Agus,

eh... kucing makan tikuih jugak, just the head part they always buang...

superdzu said...

maybe this kucing is vegetarian?

he he

Daddy & Mummy said...

maybe her husband ada masalah 'kelelakian' kot.. sape tau?? so, the wife kena la face her husband & bincang masalah diorang tu elok2.. :)

Cosmic_GurL said...

Agus - LOL! OMG! That is mean! But yeah i'm sure it has cross my friend's mind too. She didnt share her suspicion with me though so who am I to say anything la kan :)

sarclover - Like I said we'll see. Mula2 mmg la mcm belangkas, 1 hari blh 2, 3 kali but dah lama2 esok satu minggu sekali pun susah. Hehehe..thats wht ive been told by my friends la :P

superdzu - This Kucing is definitely NOT vegetarian!

Yus - Hmm...maybe la kot but lelaki kan ego besar gedabak..malu la kot nak admit to the wife

Da Winged Acrophobic said...

Making kids and making love and having sex are three totally different propositions. Making kids ada pressure. The other two banyak pleasure!