Monday, December 22, 2008

Happy New Year Everyone!

In a few more days we will be coming to the end of 2008. A lot of things had happened this year, some are exciting and nice and some are just sad and depressing.

Hubby and I have been trying very hard for a baby this year but I don’t think it’s going to happen anytime soon. Disappointed? Yes, of course I am. But it’s only been a year and I am not going to give up that easily. I have been to a doctor and InsyaAllah we will do whatever that is necessary to get pregnant. My relationship with hubby has been really good so far. We have our fights as most couple normally do, some fights were silly ones and some were pretty intense. But we made-up really fast and we talked more about our problems with each other, instead of giving each other silent treatments. Hubby is the kind of guy who wants to talk about everything. I mean if I get angry at him for some reason then he would just badger me to talk about it over and over again. If I don’t answer his call then he would call 50 times and leave countless text messages until I answer them. He sometimes doesn’t understand the concept of leaving me alone to cool off for a while and hence causing me to get even angrier with him. If I am angry then I just want to be left alone until I cool off on my own because if you’re trying to use logic with me when I’m mad then you’re wasting your breath and time.

But now I think he is getting it. He knows now how to handle me when I’m upset. Thank god.

Work wise, everything has been good, Alhamdulillah. I am surrounded by really good people. I don’t think of them as my colleagues anymore but as good friends. One of them is getting married next year and I foresee we will be having lots of fun planning her hen night. I already know what I’m going to make her do *evil laugh*

I heard we may be getting our bonus and increment tonight. I hope and pray it’s a good bonus. I don’t understand when employers say that because of the economic downturn they have to slash our bonus. I mean we worked really hard all year round despite the economic downturn so it should not affect our bonus at all since we are entitled to it, right?

As for friendships, well, I have to say this year has been a very trying year for me. Some misunderstanding had caused a rift to the friendship and friends ended up not talking to each other. We can apologise and asked for forgiveness till kingdom come and try to salvage whatever that is left of the friendship but if one party decide that the friendship is worth foregoing then there is nothing we can do. As for me, I can only give her time and hoped that in the future we will be able to talk to each other like we used to. Not everything bad had happened this year. I’ve made some wonderful friends whom I know I can count on for support and I have my wonderful existing friends who are willing to accept my shortcomings and understand where I am coming from. I can be loud and opinionated at times but I am a softie inside.

Anyway, I’ve learned that you can’t take friendship for granted. I’ve learned it the hard way. As much as I want to salvage the friendship, I have to accept the fact that you can’t make people do what they don’t want to do. When their heart is no longer in it, then there is no point to continue further.

With all that said and done, I have to say that I am looking forward to 2009.

I am looking forward to make a baby or babies (hubby said that there are twins in his family…hehehe…) with hubby.

I am looking forward to my 2nd Wedding Anniversary and my 35th Birthday in February.

I am looking forward to my next promotion. Heh…InsyaAllah. Just have to be more focus and work harder.

I want to wish everyone Merry Xmas and a very Happy New Year. I pray that next year will be a better year for all of us.


Maya said...

may all your wishes come true..:) happy new year!!

j or ji said...

kami selalu bergurau, kalau kami masuk amazing race asia,mesti kecoh sebab langsung tak boleh ngam!

tapi kami sesuai berdua.

selepas setahun setengah kawin,baru wifey mengandung.bagus sebab dapat manja2 berdua puas2 dulu..baru masuk orang ketiga (baby)

semoga dapat anak cepat dan sukses 2009!

happy new year!

pugly said...

Amiiinn ... I will pray for that stork to bring you a lil' bundle of joy as well - or two! ;-)

Yes, it has been a trying year for most of us. Let's hope 2009 will be more bearable.

Ms B said...

I hope all your wishes come true, tho I think u'd want a baby more than anything else.

As like you, I had to reconsider the meaning of friendship after what I went thru. But I suppose it helps us to understand and appreciate real friends.

err... I had to read again the birthday part. U sure sound young dear, esp when you write music review. Oh well, age is just a number and I believe you are one hot babe. *winks*

ps: I sure hope u continue to write next year too.

toughcookie said...

my take on gaduh2 laki bini ni macam a must lah sebab after a fight, you'd realise how much you love each other and how you cannot live without one another.

pasal friendship tu, some one close to me pun had that experience just a month back kot. i think we are whom we are. as long as we are sincere and genuine in the friendship but we got misunderstood, all we can do is apologise. tapi kalau the other party thinks that the friendship is not worth salvaging, it's their loss, babe. it's their loss. as far as you know, you have a lot to offer a friendship not necessarily in material terms. kawan menangis susah nak cari kan as they say.

so, happy new year to you too. insyaAllah, rezeki akan datang for a baby. it's a cliche statement but you guys are in my prayers.

take care!

Nour said...
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Nour said...

Happy New Year!! May year 2009 brings you LOADS of joy and happines!! As for the baby thingy, sementara tak de baby lagi, enjoy the moment berdua..nanti dah dapat wld probably be too busy for anything else :) Take care.

Cik Puan Muda Stress said...

Happy New Year babe.

kawaii_desu said...

happy new year 2 u too dear!! :)

and for all the above, i feel u and i agree totally with u...

may next year be different

maszuzu said...

hey beb, happy new year to you too and selamat menyambut awal muharam to!!!

frm any point of view, having someone to argue with and texting u 50times is far cry better than having no one at me beb...hehehehe

The Pisces Man said...

Insha' Allah you will get lots and lots of children from the year 2009 onwards...:))

You forgot to mention smthing that happened in 2008 - u came across a person who goes by the name Abdun @ The Pisces Man, ahahahaha...

So, I reckon you got ur bonus and increment already? Ahaaa...

akula said...

Happy New Year CG. Hope all yur wishes will come true.

Remember, more sex equals more chances ok.


darlene said...

happy new year cg.

Valisa said...

happy happy new year. May all your wishes and dreams come true! And 2009 be a magical year!

Paus Biru said...

Happy new year, dear. May all your wishes (esp *that* one) come true. Cheers!

Dade Ghost said...

CG Happy New Year to you! Kind of late.... but better late than never!

Ermm... I am sure 2009 will bring much better things into your life. Go and have a blessed life!!!!