Tuesday, January 03, 2006

Everybody Hurts....


A friend called me up and told me that she’s having some problems with her bf and that they might break-up (yes, she was THAT vague). I asked her if there is anything I can do to help. And this is what she said,

“Nah. It’s okay. At this point I just wanna listen to depressing songs so I can just cry it all out. I just need to wallow for a bit.”
“Are you sure? You don’t wanna talk about it? You just wanna listen to music? Think your problems will go away just by listening to depressing songs?”

“No. I am not delusional. The problems are still gonna be there. It’s just that I relate better to music, you know? I just need to get everything out of my system.”

Okay then. So for her benefit, I am listing down my break-up / depressing songs which I normally listen to when I wanna wallow.

Hope you feel better *Sue*

All Time Break-up Songs –

1) Everybody Hurts – R.E.M.
2) With Or Without You – U2
3) Out of Reach – Gabriel
4) End of the Road – Boyz II Men
5) One Last Cry – Brian McKnight
6) How Can You Mend A Broken Heart – Bee Gees
7) Insensitive – Jann Arden
8) My Immortal - Evanescence
9) All Cried Out – 112 feat. Allure

33 comments:

Charlie said...

Ok, Charlie is going to show his feminine side now, and stick his neck (and tounge) out and add this song to the list "Exhale (Shoop, shoop)" by Whitney Houston

BroomHilda said...

"Let Me Let Go" - Faith Hill
"Until I Get Over You" - Christina Millian
and my own personal sad song "Officially Missing You" - Tamia

:(

Mr Hobo said...

why lah sad songs ... Here's my song :-

First I was afraid
I was petrified
Kept thinking I could never live
without you by my side
But I spent so many nights
thinking how you did me wrong
I grew strong
I learned how to carry on
and so you're back
from outer space
I just walked in to find you here
with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed my stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I had known for just one second
you'd be back to bother me

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
'cause you're not welcome anymore
weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I'd crumble
you think I'd lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
as long as i know how to love
I know I will stay alive
I've got all my life to live
I've got all my love to give
and I'll survive
I will survive

It took all the strength I had
not to fall apart
kept trying hard to mend
the pieces of my broken heart
and I spent oh so many nights
just feeling sorry for myself
I used to cry
Now I hold my head up high
and you see me
somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person
still in love with you
and so you felt like dropping in
and just expect me to be free
now I'm saving all my loving
for someone who's loving me

sorry panjang sikit.

Soulmates_77 said...

err... Cik Pijah recently gave me "Since you been gone" by Cik Kelly Clarkson... err boleh masuk list ke? hehehe

*concreterose* said...

hope your fren will feel better..

btw, toni braxton has tonnes of sad songs..

zuhri said...

for old time's sake (if anyone could remember la0 coz' this is really a mushy mushy song. "mengapa perpisahan yang kau pinta - flybaits". sure tangkap leleh punya. tapi, susah la rasanya nak cari cd dia.

Javard said...

unbreak my heart...sniff sniff...i dah nangis dah while typing......if you're not the one.....sniff sniff......
my heart will go on.....sniff sniff....muaaahhhhhhhhhhhhh....dalam bilik gelap layan perasaan with glow in the dark stars on top of your room.......sniff sniff....what a depressing way 2 start the day....

Angel Eyes said...

1. How Could An Angel break My Heart by Toni Braxton,
2. Spanish Guitar- by Toni,
3. Cry- Faith Hill,
4. Foolish Beat- Debbie Gibson
5. Insatiable- Darren Hayes of Savage Garden
6. Me, Myself & I- Beyonce Knowles
7. Fallen- Sarah Mclachlan
8. You'll See- Madonna
9. Everytime- Britney Spears
10. Here We Go- Trina feat. Kelly Rowland
11. I Still Believe- Mariah Carey..

And yes, am going to watch King Kong this wknd in Midvalley! Yeayyy!

princesswaffzonkle said...

Don't let me leave - Marc Anthony

Boooooohoooooohoooooooo

zuhri said...

oh yes, another one "love hurts" by nazareth. alamak, sumernya lagu-lagu lama, terasa tua lak aku ni

BroomHilda said...

lagu indon lagi sedeyh lah..
Januari -Glen Fredly
Bimbang - Melly Goeslaw

and oh, how could i forget?
Selagi Ada Cinta - Ning Baizura!

Shopper Mom said...

This is a bit old school la, but 'Do You Really Want To Hurt Me' by Culture Club is not too bad. Hehe..

And of course Regresa A Mi by the gorgeous Il Divo hunks.

cikPijah said...

kalu nak continue nangis nangis it'll be "unbreak my heart" by tony braxton kalu nak yg semngat to bounce back it'll definitely by "since u've been gone" by my fav singer kelly clarkson.

Pink-Fins said...

I agree with hilda. lagu indon more sedih... try Menghitung Hari... uwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa... or or What If... sniff sniff...

[Is]landa said...

karyn white-superwoman.

i'm not your superwoman, jeng jeng jeng jeng.
im not the kind of girl that you can let go and somethingsomethingsomethingsomething
BOY, i am only humaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannnnnnnn!!!

Charlie said...

hmmm ylanda, though the latter part of the song "superwoman" may provide that "jiwang" umph, the early part of the song must surely be one of the worst written lyrics ever:

Early in the morning I put breakfast at your table,
and make sure that your coffee has its sugar and cream...
Your eggs are overeasy, your toast unlikely,

lx said...

Try this ones ... if you really want to rasa tergolek ;-)

To Make You Feel My Love ... Garth Brooks (from the movie Hope Floats)

She Doesn't Need Me Anymore .. Peter Cetera

KaiserSoze said...

When my 6-years g/f dumped me for my then best friend, I played Air Supply's All out of love on rpt for 3 weeks..sad eh?

kaezrin said...

I still believe..how could an angel break my heart tuh mmg my all time favourtie la

Oreos said...

would listening to depressing songs help?

Cosmic_GurL said...

Charlie - Eh, shoop shoop is a sad song huh? I have to listen to the song again then. Or...can also change the lyrics to "early in the morning I bought nasi lemak antarabangsa..." hehehe

Hylda - Hmm...cant say Ive heard of those songs but will try to find n listen to them

Hobo - Eh, u have to listen to that song AFTER you have broken up and feto kick some ass! Definitely one of the pick-me-up kinda song

Soulmates - I love that song! Another kick ass angst song!

Cosmic_GurL said...

Concreterose - My friend is still wallowing and listening to depressing songs. Sigh..

Zuhri - OMG!! I lupa malay songs!! But malay songs smtimes meleret-leret la..

Javard - Ala dont laaaaa..now ure making me sad...but smtimes melayan perasaan ni best jugak. Can release tension :)

Angel eyes - Waahh...Cool list. I lurve Fallen too!

Shopper Mom - Hehehe...thts one of the song in the movie "Wedding Singer". Love that movie coz of its cool soundtracks!

Cik Pijah - Itu Kelly Clarkson byk nyanyi lagu kick ass! Hehehe

Pinlk-fins - Joms karaoke this weekend and sing all the sad songs nak?

Cosmic_GurL said...

Princess - Sedap ke lagu tu? Tak penah dengar but im sure tangkap leleh punya

Ylanda - Adoi! Itu ultimate song for "Wanita Jiwa Terseksa"!

Alex - Can't say I've heard any of the songs la..Hmmm...

Kaisersoze - Yr ex dumped you for your friend??? U should be listening to Eamon's FURB I Dont Want You Back, dude!!

Kaezrin - Yeah, mmg all time sad songs tuh...

Oreos - Definitely! It helps coz you'll cry and get everything out of the system. You'll finitely feel better afterwards. Tak penah try ke?

Red Raven said...

In The End - Linkin Park....tu lagu sedih jugak kan?

Captain Oats said...

Exhale (Shoop Shoop song), Superwoman (Karyn White), Me Myself & I (Beyonce), If You Don't Know Me By Now (Simply Red) are my personal favourites... Ok, now I'm feeling mushy!

Captain Oats said...

Exhale (Shoop Shoop song), Superwoman (Karyn White), Me Myself & I (Beyonce), If You Don't Know Me By Now (Simply Red) are my personal favourites... Ok, now I'm feeling mushy!

Cosmic_GurL said...

Raven - In The End tu takleh tangkap lentok la dude :)

Captain Oats - Dang! I really gotta listen to this Shoop shoop song again!

athena said...

How Could You - KC & Jojo (my ultimate boleh sebak bila dengar sad song)

It Only Hurts When I'm Breathing - Shania Twain

hehehe I'm not helping lifting the depression eh?

Cosmic_GurL said...

Athena - Hehehehe...it's okay..sekali sekali jiwang takper :)

Mr Hobo said...

bila nak update?

9 said...

'di sana menanti, di sini menunggu' - UKAYS.

oops, that one is for me. damn, it's hard being a playaz.. =)

Cosmic_GurL said...

Hobo - Hahahaha..waahh..demanding betul my ever so faithful blog reader ni. Dah update pun :)

9 - Playaz huh? How many chickas you got now?

Vlad said...

At this moment lagu paling sedih and miserable after a breakup will be 112's How Could You. Not to be mistaken with the song with the same title from Kci & Jojo.

And the comeback song would be Boyz II Men's Doing Just Fine.