Thursday, January 29, 2009

My Life Would Suck Without You

Hubby and I will be celebrating our 2nd year wedding anniversary next week and the best part is we will be celebrating it in Langkawi. Can you believe that my husband has never been to Langkawi? He’s acting like an excited little boy going on a trip far far away.

I can’t believe we’ve been married for almost 2 years now. How time flies when you’re having fun eh? I can still remember picking him up from the airport when he first arrived from Kuching 4 years ago. He was wearing his red MU t-shirt with blue jeans and pushing his trolley outside the arrival gate. (I told myself that I would never go out with an MU supporter coz they’re SOOOOOO Over The Top!! I guessed I spoke too soon).

When I saw him the first thing that popped in my head was, “Thank god he’s tall!!” Hahahahha…Seriously, I would have just left him at the airport if he was short. Hahahaha…Gila evil!!

I asked myself what made me fall in love with this man and agreed to become his wife. It’s not like we have many things in common. Yes, essentially we love music and we love watching movies and eating out but our taste in music and food are different.

He’s a football craze person and would watch sports, any kind of sports on television non-stop. I on the other hand am not. If there’s a football match on TV I would change the channel really quickly. The only time I watch football is during the World Cup and even then I’d only watch the Brazillians play. So that’s like football once every 4 years for me. But there was this one time where I had learned the names of most of the EPL players because he asked me to join in the Football Fantasy League. He knows I am a very competitive person and the only reason why I would learn the names of the players is so that I could pick them to be in my team, win and score high points. Well, at least now I know how ugly Cisse is and that Xabi Alonso is Spanish and not black (don’t ask, long story).

He would order a different dish on the menu everytime and willing to try them out while I would stick to the same dish I had ordered the last time I came to the restaurant. If I know that dish is delicious then I won't order anything else but that.

He listens to weird music well not exactly weird but not exactly mainstream either and would annoy me by asking me to listen to the song he’s just “found” and tell him what I think of the song. He gets excited when he listens to singers like Adele, Kokokaina and those Indonesian bands. He’s into RnB and I am so NOT! I can’t stand USHER!

When we fight, he would rather talk about the fight, about feelings and why I felt angry or hurt while I would rather keep quiet, cool down, sulk for a bit then talk about it. I am not a talker. When I am upset I get to one corner and keep quiet. But hubby is a talker. He likes to analyse things so he could understand where all the anger were coming from. Sometimes he analyses things too much I think!

He can sleep with the lights and tv on while I on the other hand must sleep in total darkness and in total silence.

But somehow, with all the things that we don’t have in common we managed to find a middle ground to make it work. I’m not saying he’s the greatest husband in the world nor will I say I am the greatest wife but I think we’re doing okay together. We compliment each other in ways that only we know how to. I guess what I’m trying to say is our differences hold us together, make us whole and keep things interesting.

Happy 2nd year Anniversary Sweetie…I love that you are the last person I talk to before I go to sleep and the first person I see when I wake up…


17 comments:

Theta said...

Happy Anniversary to you and Red Raven! :)

Have fun in Langkawi!

toughcookie said...

this is such a beautiful post and i love how you fit those two pictures in between.

happy 2nd anniversary.

maszuzu said...

happy anniversary beb n glad tht u married a MAN U's ...hahahhaa..

Gagak Merah said...

and how i am into Korean dramas( and watch it like a million times) now....rite yang?

I Love You too.....and Selamat Ulangtahun yang ke-2!!!!!! Muahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!

p/s: sila jangan muntah.

D.N.A.S said...

Happy Anniversary, jangan lupa sewa motor kapchai kat Langkawi. Boleh jalan-jalan makan angin sambil rambut gerbang-gerbang. Romantik tuuuu....

kruel74 said...

Here's to marriage and everthing good and bad in it... Still fighting the good fight... (even though he's an MU fan...)

j or ji said...

Selamat ulantahun yg ke 2!
Langkawi best! Pantai Cenang best! Kilim geopark best! Pergi semua!

Manchester United best giler! Kalau kawen dgn lelaki gila Man U, pasti tak boring! series!

hehe..

The Pisces Man said...

Happi 2nd anniversary to u and hubby... and enjoy your Langkawi!

As they say, opposites attract eh?

So, I'm one anniversary ahead of you, eh? Hehehe..

What a coincidence... I was just babbling about big baby boys in my blog. Czech (check) it out if you have the time..

Lynn said...

Happy 2nd, doll!

When you are at Kilim Geopark's, go ride the cable car - take one up just for yourselves, it's ok to be greedy on your big day. In the middle of the ride you'll find absolute serene calmness, enjoy each other's presence on top of the world! You'll know what I mean when you're on the ride ;)

Mrs.A said...

Happy Anniversary! Go dip in Tasik Dayang Bunting, just try it.. he he.. have lots of fun. ;)

Lilyliverbird said...

Happy Anniversary!

Maybe I should rethink my stance on not dating MU fans. lol.

Amy said...

Happpy anniversary dear and enjoy your Langkawi trip!

Valisa said...

happy anniversary and many more to come!
BTW i LURVE your shoes!!!

rozzdabozz said...

c_gurl,

opposite attracts...happy anniversary and may u have lotsa babies soon...amin

cheers..

Sokonglah MU said...

MU fans rule!


:P

Crash Test Mom said...

sorry la ketinggalan bas, happy belated anniversary! may there be many more happy years to come. amin.

Cosmic_GurL said...

Theta - Thanks dear. I think i should have responded to the comment BEFORE I went to Langkawi...hehehe...

toughcookie - I love the pics too :)

Mas - Yeah, you and the rest of the MU fans! hahaha...

Hubby - I love you too babe...Happy Anniversary :)

DNAS - Iskh! I tak berani sewa motor but i saw mat saleh semua naik motor...kalau jatuh naya jer..

kruel - Amin! :)

jorji - sempat pegi Pulau Dayang Bunting jer...

TPM - Yes thanks :) Big boys and their toys eh?

Lynn - Tak sempat naik cable car
:( next time pegi ill make sure thts the 1st thing i do...hehehe...

Mrs. A - I did that. Sejukkkk!!! Tapi i geli nak minum air dia la...hehehe

Lily - Trust me, NOT all MU fans are alike okay. I know some who are very irritating, over and menyakitkan hati! LOL!

Amy - Thanks Amy :)

Valisa - Thanks dear. I love my shoes too! They're by Man Kajang :)

RDB - InsyaAllah..At least 3 before I reach 40 can? hehehehe...

Sokonglah MU - yeah yeah...

CTM - Amin...thanks babe :)